... and if not achievement love, is just a wander around, turns round: a journey without a destination is bound to be neurotic, without a route. And if you move at random, or in the wrong direction, or in all directions at once, life begins to collapse.
is what the neurosis: the collapse of energy due to not knowing where to go, what to do, what to be. And all this creates a constant fear.
is because people live in fear: perhaps hide his trembling, the mask, but the lives of ordinary people is based on fear. And that's why people are afraid of intimacy: he fears that others can see his hole black, if you get too close.
Intimacy comes from a Latin root, intimum , which means "inner" is your innermost core, if you have nothing inside you, you can not be intimate with no. And you can not let anyone get too close: would that hole, the wound bleeds from which the pus. That person would not know who you are, you do not know where you're going, you have not even heard your song, your life is in chaos, is not a cosmos, hence the fear of intimacy.
Even lovers become intimate very rarely: the simpler to have a sexual relationship with someone is not intimacy.
Intimacy is allowing others to join you, see yourself as you see, is allowing others to see inside, let it fall into the essence of your innermost being. In the modern world is disappearing even lovers are no longer intimate friendship is now just an empty word.
The reason is this: there is nothing to share. And who wants to show their inner poverty? Everyone wants to pretend to be rich, to be made, to be steadfast and strong, to know where they are going. No one is ready or has the courage to open up and show their inner chaos, no one wants to be vulnerable: the other could use, is a well-founded fear, the other may dominate, seeing you so confused.
Seeing that you need a Master, may prevail, which is why everyone is trying to protect ... the world is based on the exploitation and manipulation.
must know that love is the middle: when the goal is clear to you, you start to develop an inner wealth. The wound disappears and becomes a lotus flower, that's the miracle of love, its magic. Love is the greatest force alchemy that exists in the world: those who know how to use it can reach the highest peak being. Those who do not know how to use the remaining to crawl into the darkest recesses of existence, never reach the heights the sunniest of life. Love is the key: from this moment begins a pilgrimage of love.
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